Who is Miss Blaze? 🤔

What’s the most twisted messed-up thing that’s ever happened to you with a romantic partner?

I bet it’s got to do with cheating.

Cheating is absolute horror.

Think about it. The person that you’re supposed to trust and share your life with, including physical intimacy, violates that loyalty.

Infidelity by a disloyal partner is one of the more horrific things a human can experience.

Worse yet?

It’s COMMON.

It’s coming from the people you least suspect.

People don’t cheat to be horrible to each other.

People cheat because humans are walking sex-drives that demand satisfaction.

There’s the nice ordinary world you live in.

And then there’s the reality of the fucked-up desires slithering around inside our brains.

The quiet housewife who seems so innocent and “vanilla” might have the most twisted sexual side you’ve ever encountered.

(Ask me how I know 😇)

Today, with dating apps… “hook up” culture… and changing expectations around dating and marriage… cheating is almost expected.

It’s almost normal.

That’s terrifying.

If you sit with the idea, it ranks up there with deeply unsettling vampire stories, zombie apocalypse, and the Halloween movies.

What happens to marriage, romance, and love when nobody can trust anybody in our most intimate and vulnerable moments?

I don’t know for sure, but it sounds like

A great place to start telling dark fantasy and horror romance stories!

That co-worker she “works late” with…

The ex-boyfriend that keeps texting her all night even as she reassures you”he’s like a brother to me”…

The “harmless admirer” who is anything but…

The husband who hasn’t given you a second look in years but finds your new neighbor… the one with the dancer’s body and perky rear-end… very much worth his time…

The horror of promiscuity is everywhere!

I’m Arabella Blaze, writer of “how to” books about dating, relationships, and sex.

The darkest, most twisted-up parts of sexuality and romance.

I help couples facing the threat of infidelity find a new way forward…

… without ending their loving, romantic relationships.

And it gets weirder…

Upwards of half of men… and these are the guys who will be honest about it… find themselves excited and aroused when…

They imagine their special ladies having sex with other partners!

Whaaaat?!

Wild, right?

Not that men will always admit this. There’s a lot of social pressure to keep your woman under control. And if you don’t, you’ll be the butt of everyone else’s joke.

The more he doth protest…

While not as common in women, many ladies have their own brand of “cheating” kinks.

Maybe she dreams of being watched by her man… or being with multiple men… or maybe she’s even got her own secret desire to see him please another woman.

However you shake it out…

Monogamy’s turning out to be the abnormal condition!

If that wasn’t bad enough, you can’t talk to anyone about this. Even swinging, which has been a thing since the 1970s, is a fringe activity for weirdos.

Men who condone a cheating wife… couples who agree to open marriage… pretty much anyone who follows their emotions and sexual desires even while in a committed relationship… are thought of as freaks and outcasts.

It doesn’t help that porn sets the agenda.

All these “girly” husbands. Men turned into feminine sissy-boys. Humiliated by well-endowed black guys. Degraded, cheated on, turned into pay-pigs for mean, narcissistic women.

Monogamy is complicated and infidelity… within the confines of a genuinely loving, caring, committed relationship… does not have to be off-limits… or a deal-breaker.

Sex has always wrapped its lubricated tendrils around violence and fear and the darker side of life.

And like horror movies, the fear and suspense and excitement draw us toward it.

Most of my writing is a deep-dive into the psyche of cheaters and their “victims”.

I’m interested in the darker half of human nature… the part with all the violent and sexual emotions, the part that throws tantrums like a toddler in an adult body… the ugly, dirty part of your mind that we all hide away under the masks of personality that we’re forced to wear in public.

You’ll find most of that writing at my Substack. If that’s your thing, you can join — 100% gratis — at this link:

https://arabellablaze.com/subscribe

With my other hat on, I’m an authoress of erotic dark romance stories that explore the darker, sensual and sexual side of dating and relationships through horror and fantasy genres.

You won’t find those stories and novels for sale here… or anywhere else.

All my fiction writing is “behind the velvet rope”… reserved exclusively for my most special and favorite fans.

If you want to read them, you’ll have to come inside and join the other members of my email newsletter.

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Be good to each other 😉

xoxo
~ Bella Blaze

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